TJ Class of '68     NEWSLETTER                                                                03/02/08    
         

My eyes are crossing from tiredness but I wanted to get out the NEWSLETTER this weekend to stay on our bi-monthly schedule that seems to be working so well.   By the way, since you have picked up the pace in sending in items and news, Mike and I will continue with this schedule.  We appreciate it.   

MAIL CALL

from Pat Trahan Knox in Beaumont
My boys are doing well, as are my grandsons. My oldest grandson, Kannon, begins Kindergarten this year. I can't believe the time passes so fast.  I'm looking forward to seeing everyone at the reunion.
 

from Walter Jones ('67)
As some of you know, my older daughter, Georgia, works for the Wyndam Corp in their timeshare business. She is the director of Web based advertising development. Her husband Scott and she have a web comic: Ask Meridee to be found at    http://www.askmaridee.com/ Georgia and Scott are both artists and graduates of Savannah College of Art and Design. The strip is somewhat based on my daughter.  I thought you might enjoy it.
 

from Cherlyn Hebert in Houston
Well, the travel plans continue.  A friend and I are working on a Wild Wild West Adventure; our tentative itinerary includes the Grand Canyon, the Petrified Forest, Painted Desert, Bryce Canyon, Las Vegas and maybe Salt Lake City.  I love to travel in Europe and so have pretty much neglected the good ole US of A.  It's pretty embarrassing when a co-worker from France comes to the US and tours canyons that you don't even know exist here.  So my grand plan is to do one domestic trip and one international trip each year.  As I mentioned in my last note, my 2008 international trip is in December and is a river cruise down the Danube in mostly Germany to see the Christmas markets.  We start in Munich and end up in Vienna.  I am really excited about experiencing what I hope will be a magical taste of the Christmas season as it should be -- cold weather, snow, town squares with big Christmas trees.  I'll probably freeze my you-know-what off, but I'm excited anyway.
 

from Vicki Plaia Michaels in Denver, CO
I'll be sending in my check for the reunion and plan to be there in August!  I'm beginning to look for jobs in the Dallas area. Colorado isn't home anymore. My oldest sister in in Coppell, as is all of her other family members. My very best friend since '68 lives in Tyler with all of her family. I'm tired of "going it alone."
 

from Paula Iles ('69)
I loved what you said about the husband who was "washing his car in YOUR driveway."  If I still lived in PA,  I know that would be what I'd say, too.  I haven't thought about our beloved 2342 Evergreen Drive in Griffing Park too much since we sold it about a year ago.  But when I do, it's pretty painful, I just cannot imagine someone else in OUR house.  I even think about our phone number YU 59568 sometimes, and I so want to call it, but alas, Mom and Dad won't answer.  When we turned it off, the phone company employee who was probably all of 25 said something like "WOW, they had this number for 70 years."

Since I didn't graduate in 68, I wasn't really planning to "crash" your reunion, although I'm sure I'd be welcome.  A couple days ago I came home and there was this postcard announced the Class of 68 reunion, and I skimmed over it quickly and thought well,  Linda sent me an invitation, and lo and behold, it announced that the location was to be a Marriott Hotel in Florida. 

I thought WOW, I knew the TJ Class of 68 has a unique cameraderie and spirit, but man, they are really going all out for this 40th reunion.  After a closer inspection of the card, I noticed it was for some high school in Florida, and how they got my name to send an invite to I'll never know. 

It was fun to get in touch with my old Hussar Big Sister, Cindy Duplantis, via email after she posted her family news and pictures recently.  I'm going to try to visit with her next time in the Horseshoe Bay area.  Our only child, Victoria, just turned 13 yesterday, Lord help me!  We took her and a friend to Medieval Times last night, our first time there.  Was really fun.  We had her knighted or made a lady for a surprise. 

Dallas is Dallas, we are fortunate to live in Highland Park, and it's really not an overwhelming city.  I was in San Francisco 2 weekends ago with my little sister, her daughter and her future daughter in law.  We had a really fun "girls weekend".  Went to Alcatraz, very interesting.  Beautiful City....San Francisco.  Their first time, I've been there numerous times.   

So sorry to hear about the mishaps with your family.  Praying for your mental and physical strength during this time of your life.  I really look forward to the newsletters even though I'm not from your class.   

P.S.  Does anyone know if Dorothy Day is still around the area? 

from Jude Arisco in Temple
I'm looking forward to the class reunion this summer. 

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WEBSITE $$$$ CONTRIBUTIONS

Fred McCarty in KIngwood
Thanks for all you and Mike do.  You may use this money to pay for long distance phone calls finding classmates and confirming addresses and for printing cartridges, softwear, security, etc.
 

Cherlyn Hebert in Houston
THANKS!
 

(No, Fred!  Thanks for the hundreds of hours you have spent trying to locate our MISSING classmates.  Sadly, you have confirmed several DECEASED ones. 

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REUNION REMINDERS

Just in case you have been living under a rock, the 40th Class Reunion will be held on Aug. 1-2, 2008.  All the details are listed on the website homepage under the heading REUNION NEWS/SCHEDULE and can be found by clicking the gray bar.  The committee's "early bird INTERNET SPECIAL" will end on MARCH 15, so make sure that we receive your check by then.   By doing so, you will be entered in the raffle drawing and two classmates' names will be drawn at the committee meeting on March 18. 

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NEWS FROM THE HOMEFRONT (BC)
Where do I start?  What a two weeks since I last wrote a NEWSLETTER!  The last you heard was about the 14 hour wait in the emergency room for Mom.  It started when she fell on Valentine's Day and fractured a vertebrae.  The pain became too much for her to bear and we brought her to the hospital a couple of days later.  Well, 11 days LATER we returned home probably in worst condition than when she went in.  IF all she would have had was the KYPHOPLASTY (balloon surgery to fill the space in her spine with cement) then the stay would have been a day or so.  But, no.  As many of you know, ELDERLY don't tend to do well after a fall.  Complications set in even before the surgery could be scheduled and to make a long story short, we almost lost her.  We finally had the minor surgery for the back 9 days after the fall and she is back home.  She is starting to show some improvement and is not needing oxygen 24/7.  She is on a walker and we have home health coming in a couple of times a week. 
 

My brother-in-law (around the block) had a stroke the same week and is still in the hospital.  My sister was the one who would help me once in awhile with MOM & DAD.  Now, neither of us can help each other  

I received 22 e-mails and numerous cards, phone calls,  and cards from classmates showing me their support and offering prayers!  I was overwhelmed.  I apologize for now responding to each one.  It wasn't an oversight, just overwhelmed some days.  I had an offer from a classmate to do my NEWSLETTER.  I had to refuse because this is a great therapy.  How many of you are blessed as I am to hear from so many friends daily?  Thank you from the bottom of my heart.  I did want to share one of the support e-mails that I received: 

from Janette Light Norton in Amarillo
 I've been thinking about your dream of becoming a nun.  If your wish had come true, you would have missed much more than a cruise:  (in no particular order) the garage sale of the century, being a grandmother (or a mother, for that matter),  the dog that would be a cat, the driveway that was but is no more, the zany saga of family ties and un-ties, and all the parts of your life that you have so generously shared. 

The heartfelt stories that you tell, and all of our other classmates offer so simply and honestly, keep us going.  Hearing each tale, no matter how sad or silly, reminds us that we are in the Game of Life and that if we keep going, we'll all win.  There is absolutely nothing that any of us can say or do to prevent our sadness, but sharing with our oldest friends, somehow helps us through. 

By writing the SUPPORT and CONDOLENCE sections each NEWSLETTER, I know that I am not along in this plight with helping with elderly parents.  Actually, I ran into 3 classmates at St. Mary Hospital during our two weeks stay that were in the same boat.  Please pray for Vicki Brunow's mom and father, Alan "AJ" Hebert's mom, and Sharon Gary's  parent while they are recovering.  Please send any names or concerns of your family members so that we can pray for them, also.  Bless you all. 

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SUPPORT

from Pat Trahan Knox
It has been so good to hear about all of you and what you are doing. It has been very sad to me to lose so many of our friends. I do remember all who are having medical problems or have lost loved ones in my prayers.
 
On January 15, I tripped over one of my dogs and fell full force on my left arm and shoulder on the tile floor. I fractured my shoulder. I have just completed my third week of therapy and am still in a great deal of pain. According to the Dr., the fracture has healed, but something in my arm doesn't like me to move it. I have used all of my sick leave and am now working on my vacation. For all of you who played sports and had injuries, my hat goes off to you for what you must have had to endure! My husband, along with many of my friends, has been diagnosed with a sleeping problem. He now has his mask to wear each night and we are hopeful he will more than 5 hours of sleep a night.
 

from Carole Oubre Reeves
Well, I have had a round of shingles for the last week.  It's on the right side of my face and in my right ear.  I am on medication and it has helped, but it's not gone yet.  Unfortunately, I am told the physical stuff can leave, but the pain can come and go for some time.  My prayer is that is all goes at one time - and soon!  Boy, do I have patience or what???  I want it yesterday :)
 

from Walter Jones ('67) about his wife, Linda Messer Jones ('66)
I'm writing from MD Anderson. Today is clinic day. Infusion is in progress and going well. We will get home late tonight, about 11 pm. All today's results are positive. Linda is feeling fine, not tired, eating well, looking well, etc. Blood work is OK, physical was OK, incision almost healed. Wound Nurse gave me an A in home nursing. The tracking indicator, CA 125, is 8.1 about what it was last time (7.5). We expect side effects to be about the same as always, achy legs from day 3 - day 7. Your continued prayer support is appreciated- for her continued success with the therapy and for me and my worries. Let me hear from you. 

from Mr. Rowland (history teacher)
I just had a treatment Wednesday.  Doing fine.  Trusting God's Word that says, "By His stripe I am healed."

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CONDOLENCES

Gail Wilson Felker
(death of her mother)
2836 Jonas Profit Rd.
Williamsburg, VA 23185
(757)645-4056
rgcjfelker@cox.net

Hello everyone.  This is Ross Felker.  On behalf of Gail and our family, thank you for your prayers, kind e-mails, and support.  Gail's mother, Eva Lauraine Wilson, passed away on February 28, 2008, surrounded by her loving family.  Gail arrived at the hospital Thursday morning and was able to spend several hours with her mother and other family members before Eva passed away.  The funeral will be Monday, March 3 at 10:00 am at the First United Methodist church in Luling, Texas.  Funeral arrangements are being provided by O-Bannon's Funeral Home, 210 Laurel Ave, Luling, TX 78648.  (830)875-5713.  A viewing will take place at the O'Bannon's on Sunday evening from 5:00-7:00 pm.  I will be flying to Texas on Saturday, accompanied by Jenny and my Mom.  Chris will be coming in from Alaska, also.   

Judy Jones Sandifer
(death of her mother)  
6330 Washington
Groves, TX 77619
judytia@sbcglobal.net

I wanted to let you know that my mom died last night bout 12:00.  She had been ill for about 3 years but really bad for the last 6 months. My she and my dad had been married for 64 years, so he is taking it awfully hard. So, I just wanted y'all to include us in your prayers.   

Phil Hall
(death of his father)  
12000 Old Stage Trail
Austin, TX 78750-1711
 

Tommy Thompson
(death of his father)  
501 N. Rivershire
Conroe, TX 77304
(936)441-1964
tthompson@romco.com
 

(a note from Fred McCarty)
I attended the Celebration of Life Memorial Service. It was a really beautiful tribute to Tommy's Dad and a celebration of his life and of the 62 years of marriage to Tommy's Mom, who died in January 2006. Also in attendance from TJ were Gary Hammond and Webb Draughon. Having Tommy as my next door neighbor since we were age 4, and knowing Tommy and his parents for the past 54 years has been a wonderful experience for me. Tommy's Dad and Mom will always remain in my memory, and in my heart, as two really special people.
  

Linda Clause Glenn
(death of her husband)  
3301 Bryan
Groves, TX 77619
(409)962-4713
 

Charlene Valenciano Allen
(death of her mother)   .
4921 Kent
Groves, TX 77619
(409)962-1105
rose03-2006@gt.rr.com
 

Please contact them at this sad time.  Remember them in your prayers.  It is what our class does best!  I know!

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Gotta go.  Too tired to find funny things to add this time.  Keep sending in news, photos, memories, concerns, etc.  I will do my BEST to keep you posted.  Love to all.

                                                                    Linda DeCuir McFadden
                                                                    lindasuemcfadden@sbcglobal.net
                                                                    www.tjhs1968.com

 

 

         
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