TJ Class of '68     NEWSLETTER                                                           09/11/10
         
         

My thoughts today are with the survivors, families of the deceased, and ALL OF Americans remembering the tragedy of Sept. 11th, 2001. 

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MAIL CALL

from Billy Jordan in Decatur, AL
I am enclosing my change of address for your class spreadsheet.  We have moved since you updated the information looking for all of us for the last reunion that was held in 2008.

(Thanks Billy.  Did you KNOW that y
ou were the
ONLY classmate that has MOVED? Well, at least you are the ONLY one that responded to my request for new information~) 

from Shari Louvier Parker (taken off of FACEBOOK)
Write!  Publish & Sell Your Book!  A step-by step workbook from Idea to Finished Book!  You actually write your beginning rough draft in the workbook!  210 pages.  Everything you need to know about writing, editing, organizing, finding a printer, editor, self-publishing, selling and making money!  $29.95  Contact me at sharipar@yahoo.com (903)933-6273 or at www.gardenofedenfarm.com 

from Jeanette Constantine Morgan in Groves 
Dennis and I celebrated our 40th anniversary Sunday, the 5th.  We had a big party at Larry's French Market in Groves the night before.  

( I noticed that Jeanette also celebrated her birthday on Sept. 10th!  That week each year must have cost her husband some big bucks!) 
 

from Lana Oliver Baker in Tulsa, OK
You may or may not remember me.  I went to Franklin, Woodrow Wilson, and TJ through my sophomore year and moved to Nederland for my junior and senior year.  I just wanted to say how moved I was by what was written about your mother for her memorial.  My father passed when I was 10 years old and my mother passed when I was 37 years old.  I just wish I would have had more time with them to make more memories.  Thank you for sharing about your family and particular, your mother. 

(Of course I remember sweet Lana from Woodrow.  Your words of sympathy and kindness really mean a lot to me.  I do have wonderful and funny memories of my mom.  My dad living with us keeps her "alive" by his presence.  Glad you are a follower of our class website.  Contact Lana at lanbak@yahoo.com)
 

from Lynn Eldridge Gill in Dallas
He's here.  Mom and baby are fine.  Born 1:22 pm Sept. 1 and weighs 8 lbs, 7 oz. 
Colson Matthew Gill

(This is Lynn's son's 3rd boy.  She now has a total of 4 grandsons and 1 princess granddaughter by her two children!)
 

from Shari Louvier Parker in New Boston, TX
(taken off of FACEBOOK)
I'm a GRANDMA! McKenzie Lee Commander is here.  She weighed 7 lb., 20.1 in. Born 10:21 pm, September 2, 2010.  My son lives 7 hours away in Houma, LA.  Boo! 

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MISCELLANEOUS

I spent quality time with classmates Debbie Borres, Jenny Rhodes, and Diane Richmond celebrating Diane's birthday this week at Logan's Steakhouse in Beaumont.  We ate, laughed, ate, laughed, drank, laughed, and did I say ate?

 Spent a "date night" with my hubby and Ernie (Castaneda) and husband, Ron Bullion at the Major League Grill in Beaumont.  The night ended too quickly. 

 Phyllis Hargrove LaBove has moved from the area after all these years!  She and her husband have bought a great home in Branson, MS and will be remodeling.  We'll miss you, Phyllis. 

 LAMAR UNIVERSITY has reconvened their FOOTBALL program.  Red and White spirit is everywhere.  Their first game was with McNeese last Saturday and it had 20,000 attendees with 17,000 seats.  The first game at the newly remodeled Lamar Stadium is a sell-out for this Saturdays first home game.  Season tickets have sold out for the year.  Of course this is old news for the local classmates but many reading this don't live in the area anymore.  You wouldn't believe how exciting all of this has been for the area and the school.  Many are having their tail-gating parties starting early in the day!!!  Classmate Susan Byrd LeBlanc's daughter, Allison, is on the twirling line! It was a long time ago, but I remember being in the Lamar Marching Band in '68 and '69.  I made lots of friends. Go LU!  Write and tell me if you attended and give us some details.

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NEWS FROM THE HOMEFRONT

Well, all has been going pretty smoothly over this way.  My sister's mental health seems to be on an even keel for the 'moment' and Dad is doing well.  I guess you could say that even after the INCIDENT that happened here!  Okay, you have to picture this:  I told Dad to try not to get up so early the following morning since we didn't have to head into PA.  Murphy got up and went to work at 5:00 as usual and I could just hear someone roaming in the house about 6:00 am.  I got up and found Dad still in his pj's a little disoriented.  I told him to go back to bed until I got him up.  I checked on the dog out on the patio and returned to my room.  I took off my gown, (can't stand to sleep in anything),  and pulled the covers up from the bed to find my DAD LAYING THERE!  After I screamed and FELL to the floor searching for my gown and throwing it back on, I stood up like nothing was amiss and politely told him to go to his OWN bed!  Thank God his dementia allows him to not remember seeing me STARK NAKED, but I DON'T HAVE DEMENTIA!  The memory is haunting me.   

Sad news:  I brought my 10 year old white poodle to Tillman's at Groves Vet Clinic and she was diagnosed with diabetes.  Tillman showed me how to give her a shot.  Yuk! I gave her one tonight for the first time.  It wasn't hard but I wanted to cry! 

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SUPPORT

from Jeanette Constantine Morgan concerning her husband's health:
Dennis is doing much better.  He actually had a TIA (mini stroke) and not a full-fledged stroke as before.  Thanks to all you have been praying for him. 

 from Laura Meece Darby concerning her in-laws, Bart Darby's parents
Please continue to pray for Bart's parents.  His mom made another trip to the hospital and his dad is awaiting results of his tests.
 
Prayers are needed for Debbie Dolce Carter.  She had lymph node surgery today at MD Anderson and is awaiting results to know the options for her recovery.

This is her message from FACEBOOK:
The surgery went very smoothly.  They removed the lymph nodes and sent them for testing which will probably take about 10 days.  The doctor still feels like it is a low grade lymphoma but I know God is in total control.  Prayer is very poweful and I am sure we will have great results.  Words cannot express how much I appreciate each and every one of you.  Thank you all for the prayers, calls, cards, and support.

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CONDOLENCES

Arthur Eugene Hufstetler

(This was a story in the newspaper about our classmate that died Aug. 27th.  KFDM also ran this story on the news station.) 

A GROVES MAN IS REMEMBERED AFTER DYING UNEXPECTEDLY

August 31, 2010
by Lindsey Kovacevich

PORT NECHES- Investigators are trying to learn the cause of a death of a man who was well known in Port Neches-Groves.  59-year old Arthur Eugene Hufstetler died Friday.  He was found unconscious at the K-C-S rail yard in Port Arthur where he had worked for 42 years.  Hufstetler died at a hospital.  Another worker was shocked while trying to aid Hufstetler.  That worker was treated at a hospital.  Relatives of Hufstetler are waiting for autopsy results to find out if he was electrocuted or died from a medical problem.  KFDM spoke with Hufstetler's family about his life and legacy.  Arthur Hufstetler's two daughters look through a lifetime of memories including pictures and medals from when Hufstetler served in the army during the Vietnam War.  "My father was charismatic, energetic, so much energy and so much life and he loved everything he did," says his daughter Alicia.  Alicia Hufstetler was at work last Friday and had spoken with her father that day.  "The last time I talked to my dad was about an hour before I got the call that I needed to go to the hospital." A call tht she'll always remember.  It forever changed the family's lives.  "It's very hard having your dad here talking to you hours before and get a phone call and he's just not there anymore.  It hurts bad.  I just can't believe he didn't come home that day" says Alicia.  The family had traditional Saturday breakfast together.  Now, there is an empty space at the table.  Alicia adds, "I feel like sometimes he was the glue that held us together and now I know he wasn't because we survived this far.  But, he was definitely our rock."  Arthur Hufstetler was also known around the community of Port Neches.  "If you're from Port Neches-Groves you know how important purple and white is."  Colors that were very important to Hufstetler.  He started making all the headdresses for the high school.  Alicia says, "It got out of control.   Behind his desk he has stacks of beads.  We always laughed.  My dad had beads in his tackle box."  Headdresses were so much a part of his life, he kept making them after his daughters graduated.  And a tradition started with buttons.  "All he used to ask for was to make you a headdress and give me a button.  That's how the buttons started.  Every cheerleader, twirler, anyone in Port Neches that had a headdress, they gave him a picture button.  They are in bags still, they are on hats, and he ended up wearing a vest."  Arthur Hufstetler was only five weeks away from retirieng when he died.  And a big party was in the works.  "We are doing this party" says Alicia.  A party that won't be filled with the same joy.  While a family deals with the death of a husband and father and a community honors the memory of its number one fan.   

( Arthur had more than 500 visitors honor him at his visitation and the funeral was standing room only.  His wife, Vickie, was a co-worker of two of our classmates, Cecile Trevino Esqueda and Paula Daigle Sheppard.) 

Elizabeth Hall
(death of her mother)
4411 108th St.
Lubbock, TX 79424
e.hall@ttu.edu

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Please do me a favor!  Write to me so that I will have something to put in the NEWSLETTER next time.  I do not like scrounging through FACEBOOK.  You can do better keeping me informed.   

                                Take care and contact a classmate,
                                 Linda DeCuir McFadden
                                 www.tjhs1968.com
                                 lindadmcfadden@yahoo.com

 

 

                         

 



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